From Betrayal to Empowerment: Debby Montgomery Johnson’s Journey of Resilience

“The only thing I did wrong was say hello.”

In this powerful and emotional episode, host Stacey Ray sits down with Debby Montgomery Johnson — an Air Force veteran, entrepreneur, author, and leading advocate for victims of online romance scams. Debby shares her incredible journey from grief and deception to empowerment and advocacy. After losing her husband unexpectedly, she sought companionship through online dating — only to become the victim of a two-year-long international romance scam that cost her over $1 million.

But Debby refused to be defined by shame or silence. Instead, she used her experience to educate others and advocate for change. Through her book The Woman Behind the Smile and her leadership at SCARS (Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams), Debby is helping thousands of others find hope, healing, and the courage to speak up.

This conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating loss, rebuilding their life, or seeking tools to protect themselves and others from emotional and financial exploitation.

🔑 What You’ll Learn

• The psychological tactics used in online romance scams — and how to recognize the red flags

• Why smart, successful people can still fall victim to emotional fraud

• How to support loved ones who may be experiencing financial or emotional manipulation

• The importance of removing shame from the conversation around scams

• How to reframe trauma into advocacy, service, and strength

• Debby’s personal healing journey — and how she found love and purpose again

Learn More:
🌐 www.TheWomanBehindTheSmile.com
📚 The Woman Behind the Smile (book)

SCARS (Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams)
✅ Main Hub: RomanceScamsNow.com
✅ Scam Survivor School: scarseducation.org
✅ Report Scams: www.Anyscam.com
✅ Survivor Support: support.AgainstScams.org
✅ Counseling Resources: counseling.AgainstScams.org
✅ Suicide Prevention Hotlines: www.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines

Social Media & Content
🔹 Facebook: news.AgainstScams.org
🔹 YouTube: youtube.AgainstScams.org
🔹 Twitter: twitter.AgainstScams.org
🔹 LinkedIn: linkedin.AgainstScams.org

📚 Resources & Mentions

• The Woman Behind the Smile by Debby Montgomery Johnson

• SCARS Scam Survivor’s School: scarseducation.org

• SCARS Support & Membership: membership.AgainstScams.org

• SCARS Editorial & Education: www.ScamsNOW.com

• SCARS Bookstore: shop.AgainstScams.org

If this conversation resonated with you, please share this episode with a friend or loved one who may benefit from Debby’s insight. Be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and follow the show for more inspiring conversations about resilience, reinvention, and living life on your terms.

Together, we can break the silence — and help others find strength behind the smile.

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